AY Show in London

AY has done it again! I laugh...

For all my England readers, AY is coming on SUNDAY 25TH NOV 2012 in Indig02 London! Special guest will be Iyanya he'll surely break "Ur waist" :) BUY TKTS: WWW.COKOBAR.COM OR CALL 02089531219 OR 07762257912 I wish I can attend it! It'll be a lot of fun! Anyway, go and catch fun!

Have a (Fun-) FriDAY!

No! to domestic violence!

Domestic violence has reached a new dimension. This is a video showing Arafat Dj, a well known musician from Cote D'Ivoire. The singer does not only beats his girlfriend but he threw dishes at her. After this video was released, the singer justifies himself by saying that allegations were made that his girlfriend cheated on him. For what, what kind of man is this? Women say no, to domestic violence, even if he pays your bills and provides you a good life, no man has the right to beat a woman. To men who beat: How would you feel if someone beats your mother, sister, or daughter? I'm sure you would never forgive that person!

Music Prince Eyango - Appelle-Moi

A perfect song for the Party-Weekend! I love it!

Prince Eyango is a musician from Cameroon. This is my first song I hear of him and I'm already in love with it!

It will surely not be the last song I will listen to!

Prince Eyango "APPELLE-MOI"

Have a great Day!

Music Shola Ama -- You might need someboby

Although this song is more than 15 years old I still love it!

Great Job Shola Ama!

Hope to hear of you again!

Iyanya celebrates his birthday today!

Iyanya is celebrating his birthday today!

Have fun with my favorite music of him!

Self-marketing good or bad?

In life you have to be able to sell yourself. The sale does not include any money in the literal sense but in a figurative sense. We sell ourself at work, we are always friendly, reliable, properly, hardworking ... Every day we try to get the best out of us, so that we stand out from the crowd. The whole is called self-marketing.We do this with neighbors, friends, acquaintances, relatives, even our children. The same thing we do with our life partners. We strive to be a good wife or girlfriend. We do the housework, prepare his favorite food, support him where we can. As a good and modern woman, we support our men financially if his salary is not enough. And exactly here I can bring a good example of a successful self-promotion.

I start with an example: In a household husband and wife are working. The salary of the husband is not enough to cover the entire cost, (400 ($ € ...) are required ...
(Ms A) Lets her salary automatically be paid into the joint account.
The first months the husband will be grateful to her, but after a while it becomes for granted.

(Mrs. B) Lets her salary be paid on her account and then gives it to her husband.
The content is the same, because each month both women give the money, but there is one big advantage for (Mrs. B), every month she reminds her husband that she helps him!
So he is forever grateful her! Simple game. "Do good and talk about it" (Walther fish). Even if she does not say anything, her act says everything. This woman finds a very effective and very subtle way to sell herself as a good and supportive wife every month. Some people understand the game very well and can use it anywhere, I think it's a super talent. Successful people use self-marketing to achieve their success.

How you market yourself at work, in marriage, with relatives or friends? What is your attitude about self marketing? Do you find it good, or rather bad?